A Moral Dilemma

[Damn I need to go to sleep, but last post for the night]
On a particularly crowded bus today I noticed that the girl standing next to me was carrying two bags of stuff while trying to hang on to the metal rail. I was about to offer to hold one of her bags until I realized that she was not that cute. Now, I wasn't being super shallow. I always offer my seat to old ladies on the subway. I just couldn't risk the stigma of being rejected by a girl who wasn't that cute to begin with. Was I being silly?